Leading a Life of Authenticity
December 22, 2022 | By Vandana Sinha
We are a sum of memories and energies that we carry within ourselves from this current lifetime, from our lineage and ancestors, from our previous lifetimes and the lessons and knowledge stored in our higher self or soul. All these experiences and information stored in our cellular memory, shape our beliefs and thoughts and therefore our actions.
We recognize that our DNA has physical, mental, and emotional characteristics of our ancestors. But we fail to recognize that our thoughts and belief systems are also influenced by our ancestral patterns. Some of these are passed on for generations and go unrecognized, leading to patterns that are limiting and toxic in the current context.
You may have everything right in your life, a good career, a good family, pretty much all material things but still feel something is amiss. Or sometimes you have been trying very hard to succeed but not achieving it. There is something amiss here as well. There are many such scenarios. But the underlying feeling is that something is missing. You remain unfulfilled.
This is a very intangible feeling and difficult to explain, especially in a world where success is mostly defined in material terms. That’s where authenticity comes into the picture. Are you leading an authentic life?
An authentic life is one which is true to you. True to your innermost talents, your innate wisdom and experiences of many lifetimes and incarnations. These are all embedded in you. When you are tapping into these, you feel a sense of fulfillment and success is yours.
But the irony is that at most times in life, we are conforming to societal and family pressures. We become people we do not want to become. Or we pursue dreams that are not meant for us. We waste a lot of time and energy towards a goal that is not true to us and not authentic for us. Possibly trying to become a film star whereas you are meant to be a teacher?
So how does one go about sorting this? First and foremost, there comes a time or situation that eggs you to reflect, whether this is what you are meant to do? Sometimes the option has been in your face, but you choose to ignore it because you lack the courage. The courage to break societal norms, to make choices for yourself. And then, there are times where you still do not know and need to figure that.
This is all part of a growth journey – of self-discovery. There are many routes for this but must start somewhere. Some people take help, and some do it themselves because they have some idea about how to go about it. There is no right or wrong. It’s a process of aligning yourself to your higher self, of being in karmic alignment. The choice of route is yours.
The bottom line is that leading a life of authenticity gives you fulfillment, high self-esteem, happiness, and well-being. When you are in alignment with your true nature and talents – you are most likely to pursue your passion and be successful and to be in meaningful relationships. This philosophy applies to all aspects of life.
You are lucky if you start this process of self-discovery early on. Developing self-awareness and intuition are important for this. And they come with unravelling layers of your identity and persona and knowing yourself better and better. You need to make a commitment to yourself to start and to continue. After that it becomes magical, and you get hooked because there is no bigger love than self-love. Its unconditional and true - and at its best, it’s the ultimate fuel you need to grow to become who you really are - your authentic self.
Are you ready to undertake this journey of self-discovery?
Vandana Sinha
Vandana Sinha is an expert in energy consciousness, founder of VanSinha LLC, and a globally recognized spiritual coach and healer. With over 30 years of specialized training in various quantum energy healing techniques, her transformative meditations and coaching programs have empowered souls worldwide. For further inquiries or to experience a personal healing session, contact Vandana today.
I used my modalities for day-to-day practical aspects of my life and for larger purposes. I kept finding new ways of learning, and the universe guided me to different teachers and guides. So over the years, I have learned Reiki, Pranic Healing, Angel Healing, Theta Healing, and Akashic Reading and Healing. I also work with Crystals, Pendulums, Bach Flowers, Tarot Cards, etc.
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